🍓

go on a date
with real chemistry
this summer.

★ a new kind of dating app ★

Four thoughtfully chosen profiles — and one deliberate choice. Every afternoon at 2pm.

no spam. ever. just a note when we open your city.

✓ you're on the list — we'll be in touch.

✦ the jam problem ✦

why we built this

love should be a gift of chance and choice,
not a product on a market

In 2000, a few researchers set up two jam-tasting tables at a grocery store. One had 24 flavors. The other had 6. The big table drew more foot traffic — who wouldn't want more options? — but the smaller table had happier customers.

Faced with so many options, shoppers at the big table often left without choosing anything. And when they did choose, they weren't satisfied, because they kept wondering whether the jam they chose was the best of those 24.

In other words, the small-table people were more likely to go home with a jam they liked, and more satisfied with the jams they chose.

be my jam is the small table.

✦ how it works ✦

intentionality with a touch of fate

four people, one choice.
every day.

step 01

🌅

Every day at 2pm

You receive four profiles, carefully matched to your preferences. Not forty. Not four hundred. Four.

step 02

🍓

Choose one

Just one. They'll be notified that someone chose them today. If they choose you back, you match.

step 03

💬

20 messages

You have twenty messages to figure out if you want to meet. That's it. Real chemistry happens in person.

step 04

Go on a date

No slow fades. No endless chatting. Just: do you want to meet or not? Intentionality with a touch of fate.

ready to be chosen
for who you are?

Join the waitlist and we'll let you know when we open in New York.

no spam. ever.

✓ you're on the list — we'll be in touch.